Maybe you do, too. For every lesson and sermon preached about loving everyone, there are one or two lessons on avoiding outsiders because they will destroy your eternity. It is almost impossible for me to hold my tears back. Will you be open to me teaching my children my athiest point of view. You can always expand these into group dates by inviting other couples along, which may make her more comfortable in the early stages of your relationship. Two people can be as completely different as it is possible to be and respect each others' beliefs. Her experience may or may not be typical, but it is something to consider. And he needs to trust his instincts if he thinks she's being dishonest. This is normal for residents.
My boyfriend is currently in his third year of medical school. My daughter thinks it's funny that she's known her SO 4 years - not ready for marriage. I am not married yet, there is some consolation in that. That means that we are always changing and growing. Of course I have time for my SOs, of course I give of myself to them. How do you really feel about that. We can also save our errant children by our valiancy too. Try a variety of dates. I simply do NOT believe he and I will not be together after we die.
Or get them met elsewhere. I remember being at some random party in university, holding a beer and looking at the throngs of people around me who were drunk and stumbling. The average debt of a med school graduate is aboutUSDwhich normally takes up to 30 years to pay off and consequentially amounts to aroundUSD of total debt with accrued interest added in. There is much that needs to change and many hearts to educate but if we doubt some of the fundamentals then why not all of them.
A good doctor must be willing to sacrifice his own needs for the good of his patient and as his wife, you sacrifice as well. That is the shit storm on the road ahead of you. Today, at my ward sacrament meeting, in the back section of the chapel where I was sitting, all the women except one were Mormon wives in interfaith families. It would be ludicrous to think otherwise. Marriage offers a chance to develop generosity of spirit and a willingness to be improved by the one we love, no matter what faith tradition he or she may claim. Many, many lapsed Mormons catch the true vision of the gospel at some time in their lives and desire to repent and become observant again. There have been times in the last three years that we have had to live paycheck to paycheck so the idea of a rich doctor is antiquated in most cases. The divorce factor may allow some women to experience single-faith marriage at some point as some Mormon men marry multiple Mormon women over the course of their lifetimes, but the overall point stands: The only options for these women involve seeking a partner outside of the church, or a lifetime of celibacy. He is my soul mate and we love each other very much. Note, her mind and TSCC were married first.