Their pain is guarded within the confines of their professional experience. And faith and trust. LDSdotOrg is mostly propaganda.
Initially I thought he would join the church and life would get back on the only track I knew. And there are questions and lessons that dual-faith couples face that zero-faith or single-faith households do not. He's not home much and his hours are crazy but, wow, I am one happy woman. I've a,ready been a single parent once. We are long distance, and it is hard, because when we are together I spend much of time alone waiting for him to come back from the hospital. I know many of you understand how Im feeling and a lot of you have been there for many years already. And everyone always asks why you are out and about alone. I volunteer every week, I put others before myself, etc.
Mixed races, however, are NOT tied into opposing beliefs and mixed races don't try to "convert" each other. I think the secret to a successful marriage and a successful family is to respect each other's space and to enjoy all the good times no matter how trivial they are and to foucs on the positive aspects of the marriage an family life. See her good qualities for what they are and see it as a good relationship to remember. Tell her that you want your relationship with her, and her relationship with your children together to be separate from her religion with her god. He may never come out and say it, but if you mention marriage outside of the church and he's OK with it, you have a slight chance of being happily married to her and not being mormon. My fiance and I are both becoming doctors, but he is becoming an Orthopedic surgeon and I am becoming a Psychiatrist. The weekends that we spend together are non stop we are always doing something or going to see friends People in general don't understand how much money it actually takes to just be a doctor. But, as soon as the marriage happened, the Mormon spouse goes full on Orthodox and expects the non Mormon to comply. And her husband now is dead and she is left to wonder about their future.
Mind control is not child's play, and the Mormon church has real people's blood on their hands for the despicable damage they've caused. We play doctor - then she leaves. When she had a strict 6: If there was a disagreement, one person was supposed to submit to the other, consult a rulebook that covered almost everything, or turn to a church leader to decide for them. You might start drinking to ease the pain. I am one to really like my space and opportunity to do my own thing and little projects.