Doggy Style is the perfect position if you like feeling submissive while your man takes control. Of course, you can always see the rest of the sex positions here. To perform Doggy Style with your man, you need to get down on your hands and knees with your legs spread apart. Then your guy gets down on his knees and enters you from behind. Side Note: I put together this in-depth assesment that will uncover just how good you are at giving oral sex and satisfying your man. It may uncover some uncomfortable truths, or you may discover that you are already a queen at giving blow jobs. If you want harder penetration, then you can push back onto your man with each stroke.
Who says sex has to be composed of the same two or three positions? While the average person shouldn't expect sex to be porno-level — not that porn situations and positions are all that great IRL anyway — it's not so bad to want to shake things up every once in a while. For some, that could mean having quickies in the car or getting it on in front of a mirror. For others, it could mean making small changes, like talking dirty in order to spice things up.
It is said that one of the best ways for women to have an orgasm during intercourse is by getting on top. Not only does it allow you to be completely in control of the thrusting, the speed, the tempo, and the depth in which your partner penetrates you, but it's also a great way to feel both internal and external stimulation during P-in-V or strap-on in V fun. Cowgirls also offers a variety of moves for you to test out when you're on top : You can bob vertically up and down on your partner, pump your hips forward and backward, swirl them around and around for a truly all-encompassing ride, or even simply grind your clit into your partner's pubic bone for a fast climax.
It may seem like a stack of pillows or a sex wedge wouldn't make that much of a difference, but ohhhh, it does. A little tweak to an angle or a bit of a butt-propping is everything. Make a cylinder of pillows and straddle it. Put your favorite vibrator on your clit and press against it against the pillow—it'll stay in place.