Are you going to keep the sabbath holy as a family, or is he going to take the kids out for pizza after church, leaving you home to observe alone. I also expected that my spouse would be temple worthy and that I would get married in the temple, which was not the case. Fellowship was worse and now that my doc has been an attending for 2 years, it is worse than it has ever been. I am the wife of a general surgeon in his mid 50s. I'd just like to add that unless you're happy being with her as a full believing Mormon, don't stick around in the hopes that she'll de-convert. Would love to join. Fellowship was worse and now that my doc has been an attending for 2 years, it is worse than it has ever been.
Did you know Joseph smith married the wives of other living men. I don't think you necessarily need to cut ties with her. He expects perfect children who ,"will all become doctors. I am so beyond afraid of what lies ahead in terms of residency; the loneliness, missing out on years of family experiences together, raising two kids by myself we have a 1. If everything she is taught is correct and the Mormon church is "true" she should be able to research any anti-Mormon books or movies and prove their criticisms are lies.
I appreciate your honest, and I really like the way you phrased things, particularly this sentence: Thank you for your comments. There are other occasions for humor, but these two are off the table. Well if she knew or ever found out, in her eyes you'll be a loathsome perverted deviant in need of sex addiction counseling. Why Mormons don't drink wine or coffee. You are a good person and she can see that. She'll be hoping that you're going to convert and if neither is happy with the other being as they are, you'll find yourself divorced shortly down the road. On her mind, her eternal salvation depends on marrying a worthy priesthood holder. It's a foolish dream I suppose. I have been married to my doctor husband for 36 years. Did you know Joseph smith married the wives of other living men.
I deal better with inattention when he is home better than him as well. The yard stick he uses to assess what is "normal" is so warped that he has lost touch with what a happy life could look like he often berates himself for feeling so miserable given how "easy" his schedule is at just 65 hours a week, not like surgery or some other 80 hour a week speciality. As I grew and became confident, I learned how to deal with social awkwardness. We can't tell you that. Be open-minded; accept that different people have different beliefs, and that they do not always have to match with yours. I just feel relieved that there are others of you out there in the same boat as me. You guys have very thick skin. This guy was orbiting so strongly that he changed his religion before they were even dating. But I have no idea how much of his lack of contact is actually due to him being busy or if that's just an excuse to not commit. As someone born and raised in the church this has been very difficult to moderate and there is some social pressure to become more involved.
